In other cases, self-desire can arise from treating oneself with respect and love. Through an exchange of information, two people can learn and love themselves. However, it is parents who show their children how to love. In the absence of a parental figure, many children will face a sudden change in their lifestyle. Children of all ages will learn from their teachers, peers and media influences. In The Glass Castle by Jeannette Wall, children will change under different influences in their lives, as shown in the novel “I Hesitated. “Sometimes I think it’s neither.” (256). Jeannette grew up knowing that her parents weren't the best role models. Although her father illustrated his love for her through various actions. She found it difficult to talk about her parents in public. The fact that her parents live on the streets while she spends her money on school is horrible. Her bond with her parents became worse and worse, which helped Jeannette become a promising young girl..