Corruption is present in every city and government in one form or another. However, to counteract corruption, society needs some form of structure to function properly, whether those structures involve elements of intimacy and love or civility and trust. Society will see that the majority of people will respond positively to have forms of love and trust. Intimacy and love are very different from courtesy and trust: I believe that intimacy and love work better in situations with fewer people, but courtesy and trust are better suited to larger groups . Thus, I will argue that civility and trust trump intimacy and love, in which trust is of greater importance to society. Intimacy and love are important factors in interpersonal relationships, but as a basis for not governing and controlling society. Consider a three-person group situation, or also known as a triad, intimacy and love are not successful most of the time (Freidkin 5/20/10). Take for example a family of three, a father, mother, son or daughter, who love each other unconditionally. However, as the adolescent grows, he may not always agree with his parents' decisions regarding his life; and/or vice versa, where parents may not like the teenager's lifestyle. This shows that we tend to hold others with great esteem and respect when we love another. Also, when we love others, we want the best for them and help them make better decisions to have better relationships with the party. In relation to society, intimacy and love are not ideal characteristics because they are too personal; Not everyone will willingly let others control their lives and environments for outsiders. For those who have conflicting beliefs with senior management, they will feel that a choice must be made... middle of paper ... recognition of differences is realistic because no two people have the same morals and the same values ​​which do not argue. This shows that courtesy and trust show tolerance towards others' discord and seek answers to resolve every problem and conflict. With the application of accommodations, society will have more advantages to prosper through the idea of ​​the public working together. Ultimately, society cannot cure corruption with intimacy and love but with civility and trust. Civility and trust are better for group relationships, such as society, because they show tolerance and respect for others. Intimacy and love can also be used, but it is an inferior functioning element for society due to the pressure of being an "idealized" society. Intimacy and love are more successful in small groups because they are more privatized while civility and trust are focused on the public..