You are all intelligent and reasonable people; you all know that the way a man treats his mother is largely an indication of how he will treat his wife. You must see that this tribe is not made up of real men. A real man holds back around women and respects women. Machismo, as a valued quality among Bra Boys, creates a degradation towards women. How is Abberton's documentary good for our youth? This influences young people and shows them that they have to prove that they are part of a group when young people should just be themselves and feel good about themselves. The non-appearance of a woman in the Bra Boys could be a sign that there are things the filmmakers don't want the public to know. Where are the real men of Maroubra? Bra Boys are not real men. The versions of masculinity promoted in Sunny's documentary are pathetic excuses for men. The question is: what does it mean to be a real man? Protective of the family, respectful of the woman and themselves and proud of their appearance. The continued violence, type of relationship and limited number of women shown throughout the documentary is disturbing and distressing. Now answer this question: does this violent gang show what a real man is? Cheyne Horan says it himself in the documentary, “the boys of Maroubra, nothing but