During the colonial era in the United States, civilians recognized that “niceness” and etiquette were very important. Kindness is a form of power induced by manners, behaviors, and appearances (Bushman, par. 9). Colonial civilians based their daily errands on genteel behavior. The distinguished actions and forms of life of the civilians represented not only the status of the civilians in the community, but also their characters. In America today, etiquette behaviors have declined and are one of the leading causes of social problems. In order to accommodate a civilized America, the morals of etiquette must be enforced in every American home. In doing so, children should learn the importance of good manners, which also helps in improving the social problems of societies. In the past, up until the colonial era, etiquette and good manners played an important role in American society. From a young age, children were required to memorize and study etiquette books. Etiquette was very important during this time in America, as it determined the advancement of individuals in society. “The demand for etiquette manuals was immense because many Americans were both unsure of themselves and, [sic] characteristically, determined to improve themselves” (Bushman, para. 34). Unfortunately, this type of “requirement” among American families has diminished. Certainly, there are few homes where good manners are taught, but this is not always the case. Today's societies raise children who are liberal, outspoken, and sometimes even carefree. It is rare to walk through a neighborhood and politely greet a stranger, as this is considered harassment. Similarly, Richard L. Bushman and James A. Morris both argue that the deterioration of middle of paper ...... that they will present themselves to others. Appropriate and etiquette-related behaviors can open many doors for the future, but can also damage good opportunities for a successful future for individuals. “Politeness goes a long way, but costs nothing” (smiles). Works Cited Burns, Michael T. “CLASSROOM PRACTICE: The Battle for Civilized Behavior: Let's Start with Manners. » Phi Delta Kappan. 84.7 (March 2003): 546. General One File. Gale of wind. SkylineCollege Library. Internet. May 10, 2011. Bushman, Richard L. and James A. Morris. “The Rise and Fall of Civility in America.” The Wilson Quarterly 20.4 (1996): 13+. General A file. Internet. May 11, 2011. Martin, Judith. “Manners matter.” The American Enterprise 8.2 (1997): 27. General file. Internet. May 11, 2011.Smiles, Samuel. “Good Manners Quotes and Quotes.” Famous quotes and authors. Np and Web. May 13. 2011.