raising children is considered the most important thing for building a happy family. Children's behaviors are mainly affected by their parents, so their behaviors, whether good or bad, depend on the action of their parents. Some parents do not pay attention to how they raise their children and then behave badly with their parents and everyone else. I believe that parents are the only people responsible for their children's behavior, because children always obey them. However, some people believe that children should be responsible for their actions. Many people do not know the exact meaning of misbehavior. They often think that what their children do is considered normal behavior, and this happens with all other children, but in fact there is a big difference between normal bad behavior and non-normal bad behavior. Normal bad behavior often occurs as a reaction caused by a non-permanent situation. For example, the child's reaction when he is hungry or tired, he starts to behave badly, but these behaviors are spontaneous like crying or growling, and just this situation ends, the child returns to his natural self and becomes calm. Abnormal bad behavior is what always happens, there is no specific situation or time like hitting, insulting, spitting or crying and many more. I believe the number one reason children misbehave is because parents are not disciplined. their children when they make mistakes, and not telling them that what they did was wrong, which will cause them to behave badly again and again. According to Valya Telep, a former child development specialist at Virinia State University, noted: Effective discipline helps children learn to control their behavior... middle of a sheet of paper. .and what's wrong. In addition, parents should not be cruel to their children, and parents should be careful of their actions in front of their children. They also need to resolve their issues and make divorce the solution. , July 2013. Web. December 14, 2013. Stiefel, Chana. “What your child learns by imitating you.” Parents.com Broadcasting, December 14, 2013. Telep, Valya. -Discipline and punishment: what is the difference. " Virginiatech.com. Broadcast, May 1, 2009. Web. December 14.2013.