In “Helicopter Parents – Stop Hovering!” » Diether H. Haenicke argues that parents who watch over their children do not help them; on the other hand, they are more likely to affect them negatively. Haenicke points out that some parents attended college classes and took notes for their son or daughter if they were sick. He also states that parents would even accompany their children to a job interview. According to Haenicke, most companies will never hire someone who shows up to a job interview with their parents. According to Haenicke, some students have low self-esteem because they rely less and less on their own abilities as they have learned to depend on their parents. Extreme dependence deprives them of the opportunity to learn through experience, which is the best teacher. All these factors play a major role in the development of certain mental problems in these students. So this is the perfect time to let students lead their own lives and experience life in its entirety. Children are unable to make decisions about their future because their parents hover a lot and interfere in their lives. It is this interference that has led to the emergence of “helicopter parents” in our society. These parents go to their children's schools and talk with teachers and coaches about their education or the challenges their children are facing. In the article “The Dangers of Helicopter Parenting,” M. Sue Bergin explains how Andra Warner, as a parent, began to hover after having her second child. She started this slowly by doing what she thought was necessary for her daughter, but sooner or later she realized she was doing things she had never done for her son. Andra Warner f...... middle of paper ...... lose the opportunity to gain more knowledge from their teachers who are more educated than their parents. In conclusion, parents who hover over their children and don't give them space to breathe and lead a more independent life are harming their children while thinking they are helping them. These parents could, in the truest sense of the word, create new and lasting problems for their children, which could potentially be transferred to their grandchildren. Children need to learn how to interact and engage in college and beyond, while parents should stop hovering and give their children some space to experience life. In fact, it is said that love and independence are what every child needs to succeed in life, whether there is too much or too little and no child thrives. Therefore, parents should stop minding their children's affairs and allow them to learn through experience..