They work hard to provide them with so much and it shows. When I asked Alan what kind of part or role he played in the birth of his child, he said “everything.” The biggest challenge he says he has as a father is having to be one, but three times. Learn how each child develops differently, whether you raise them the same way or not. What he thinks makes a good father is how you raise your children. He has read and practiced different parenting styles, but finding the one that best suits each child is the big challenge. Since Alan is a bit older than my other dads tested, the way he said having a child has changed his life is simply that the time he actually has for himself has completely diminished, but he enjoys it . The advice I give to new fathers is to not stress too much about everything. Do not panic or exaggerate when faced with the concept of