He says, "since I broke up with what's his face / I'm a different man", which illustrates how scarred and broken their breakup left him. He's a totally different person than he was before, so how can we hold him to our old standards? How can we expect him to go back to being the honest human he apparently was before if his heart was so badly broken? Physically, he can't be that person. We cannot hold him to the same standards as everyone else: he is heartbroken and deserves our pity rather than our