Marriage is a union which should not be entered into lightly; subsequently, it is important for the couple to think about the relationship and what they promise to do. Before promising another person how they will treat them during the marital relationship, you need to take stock of your partnership, your feelings towards the other partner and assess the capabilities of both people. Next, it is important to examine one's own likes, dislikes and other information relevant to the union. In order to not completely reinvent the process of making these vows, it is important to look at examples of other marital vows. The next step is to write down some general concepts that are important to this person's wishes. Finally, after careful consideration, one should be ready to write down their vows. This way, you can promise a commitment to the most important person in your life. Definition Although people often make the same vows – oath of allegiance, taking an oath in the military or public office, declaring beliefs or beliefs in church – several Sometimes it is important to understand the implications of 'a wish. The Merriam-Webster online dictionary (2014) defines a vow as “[A] solemn promise or affirmation; more precisely: that by which a person is linked to an act, service or condition” (Merriam-Webster, 2014). Unlike other vows which, oddly enough, are repeated over and over again, wedding vows are usually meant to be said only once (unless they are intended to commemorate a special occasion such as a 50th anniversary). marriage). If the person's intention is to make such a wish, then it should be important to first observe why he or she is making the wish. When looking to make a wish from your life perspective p...... middle of paper .. ....and start by reviewing the wishes that others have written. Once you have done your research, you can begin to incorporate different ideas into your personal marital vows. When writing your vows, it is important to understand that they are writing how they promise to treat their partner. In conclusion, it is extremely important to also receive the opinion of your partner. Works cited by Merriam-Webster. (May 13, 2014). wish. Retrieved from Marriam-Webster: http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/vowPiyanada, B.W. (2008). The Bodhi Tree Grows in Los Angeles: Tales of a Buddhist Monk in America. Boston: Shambhala Publications, Inc. Smith, R.L. (1998). A Book of Quaker Wisdom. New York: Eagle Brook. The Episcopal Church. (May 13, 2014). A marriage order. Extract from the (online) Book of Common Prayer: http://www.bcponline.org/PastoralOffices/civilmarriage.htm