This even happened between men and women. We may both speak good English, but we use it very differently. Men communicate with each other in a certain way, just like women. In the essay But What Do You Mean? by Deborah Tannen, she writes: “There is no “right” way to speak. When she says this, she is talking about the differences between men and women when they speak. Men usually like to make fun and tease each other while they joke around, but women don't enjoy that. They may just look at him like he's rude or just plain mean. This is why it is important to know who you are going to speak to and to anticipate how they might speak. If a woman goes to speak to a group of men and joins in their conversation, they will probably start making fun of her too. If a woman is not prepared for this, she may be considered a