I generally didn't disclose myself because I thought that if my children thought I hadn't done anything wrong, they wouldn't no harm, and they were good children. But now my children think I lack good shoes and they make fun of me sometimes and make fun of me. I was usually telling them about someone else, their story, and what happened to that person. I have noticed a difference in my behavior with my grandchildren than with my children, but I am older and have more knowledge. My oldest grandson sometimes starts to say something, then his shuts down and doesn't want to talk, but later I will approach him in a different way with different words, and almost every time he falls into traps him and tells me what's happening. in progress. But then I talk about his mother and uncle and what they did to make him not feel alone. So I've learned that using your words and thinking about what you're going to say first really helps. My role play with self-disclosure:Mark: He tells me the story of his accident with his father's truck.Advisor; I want to make sure I hear you correctly, you had an accident in your father's truck while you were driving, am I right?Marc: yesCounselor: you are afraid to tell him and you told your mother that he was going to kill you when he found out, and am I right so far?Mark: