Being ambitious is something women should be proud of. For example, in Dawn Jefferson and Rosanne Welch's article “Ambitious and proud of it!” ", they both note: "If you're like many women, you probably keep your ambition a secret, afraid of being called ruthless or even selfish. , if you speak openly about what you want. But here's a news flash: Having ambition — and letting others know it — is essential for a satisfying life, writes psychiatrist Anna Pels, MD, in her insightful book "Necessary Dreams: Ambition in Women's Changing Lives." (39). I disagree with the brackets because instead of blaming the system, let's be realistic and talk about what we are capable of achieving in the current system. Richard Dorment, the author of "Why Men Still Can't Have It All," writes: "If you don't want a high-pressure, high-power, high-paying job that requires you to make unacceptable sacrifices in the rest of the world, your life, do not accept work. Or find another job that doesn't require these sacrifices. » (716) On the other hand, I agree with Ullman because success gives us the choice to be where it suits us. In the film "The Devil Wears Prada" (2006) by director David Frankel, Andrea Sachs (Anne Hathaway) chose to change and change clothes to work for American Runway editor Miranda Priestly (Meryl Streep). , but at the end of the film, Andrea decides to quit her job because, although she is successful, she is not happy. While Andrea and Miranda were in the car, Andrea said "What if that's not what I want, I mean what if I don't want to live like you live" Miranda responds "don't be made a fool of Andrea, everyone wants that, everyone wants to be us" Andrea leaves the car, rejects Miranda's phone call and all through the phone with a big smile of success and victory in her.