Confrontation often gave me the opportunity to stop unethical behavior while preserving or even improving my relationship with the purchasing staff (culpable party). By confronting the purchasing staff and others involved in the act, I assure the party involved that I want them to stop what they are doing for their own sake, as well as for the well-being of their business , his colleagues and his suppliers. . I would carefully consider the location and time of my confrontation. To help me stay on good terms with those I confront, address them without self-righteousness and without belittling them.