Don'tsDo not dishonor your husbandStop nagging and stop this habit of correcting him in front of others. The husband's ego is extremely fragile and hurting him can be crushing. It is highly disloyal to talk about your husband behind your back. Become a better wife; Pledge your loyalty to your husband and not to your social group or biological family. Complaining about him to your friends and family will never solve your problems, but will only cast a negative light on your relationship. Husbands may bury their heads in the sand, but they desperately need respect. Don't refuse to have sex. Never use sex as a tool to negotiate with your husband. If he wants more sex, open your mind and let him enjoy it on his own terms. It is important to plan sex in your relationship. Some women believe that sex should be spontaneous but end up neglecting it. In many relationships, each partner has different expectations when it comes to the frequency of physical intimacy. The only trick is to find a happy and satisfying middle ground with your husband. Couples who have responsibility for meeting the needs of their lovers tend to be happier and live healthier lives.