We didn't expect this trait to be at the top of the list of traits, but it makes sense because it connects very well to kindness . My friends, I have always been told how wise I am for my age, especially when it comes to the feelings of others. I have always had good people to look up to in my life, like my parents, coaches or mentors. Perspective is something that is not used every day and is put aside, but when the time comes, I am able to help others make wise decisions and change the way they view a situation. My mother always knew how to gain perspective; she always knew how to change the way I see a situation. For example, when I was in middle school, there was another student I didn't care about and my mother always told me to imagine if we were friends and not enemies. I didn't go out of my way to develop this trait because it comes naturally to me because of the way I was raised as a child. In the future, I imagine this will be a very useful parenting skill, since that's exactly what parenting is. Being able to provide wisdom to my children will help them become successful members of society or in my future career in terms of looking at a problem on many levels.